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Post by fallen-angel on Jun 30, 2008 3:17:53 GMT -5
at the moment i am going through alot with my p[arents spliting up and i have to choose who to stay with and it is realy hard for me but at the moment a fight is going on between me and all of my other friends if you have read it on this page: elizabunny.proboards39.com/index.cgi?board=general&action=display&thread=3790&page=1but at the moment i am getting very depressed and my "friends" are not helping me i know i should appolagise myself but i would like them to apoagise to me too, what should i do?
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Post by AmyAnn on Jun 30, 2008 4:52:59 GMT -5
Well, first off, your "friends" don't sound like great friends if they're not helping you out in a time of need.
When my parents divorced I had no choice but to stay with my mom so you're lucky that you have the choice. However, I'd go with who you are most happy and secure with. I said this to my friend last night as his dad left and was asking him if he wanted to go to. The main thing is that you can be happy and safe with the parent you choose. I know I may sound really horrible here and it will be hard to be happy.
OR Stay with one parent one week and another parent the next week. In my family, I stay with my dad on a Saturday and Wednesday night. If you could sort out something where you could stay with one parent one week then another the next or split it half and half on a week.
Hope I help in some way ^^;;
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Post by fallen-angel on Jun 30, 2008 4:56:43 GMT -5
my parent won't let me stay one week with them its a bumber and it is so true they aren't realy good friends
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Post by Carla on Jun 30, 2008 8:02:16 GMT -5
*hugs* Well, your friends -no ofense intended- are sucky friends.
I can imagine how hard this situation is for you, and I agree with Amy-Rose, you might organize your times with your parents
I really don't know what to type, but I hope you know you shouldn't apologize of anything, they should
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Post by icryinmysleep on Jun 30, 2008 11:10:22 GMT -5
u know i have sorry but i an't in the fight
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Post by tycoongirl on Jun 30, 2008 13:23:04 GMT -5
i know this board is so people can let out their feelings but when people you know might see it and they haven't had a chance to say there side of the story thats a bit unfair don't u think??? and i do sympathise with u fallen angel but if you snap and drive you're friends away what do you expect
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Post by Ellethwen on Jun 30, 2008 13:47:32 GMT -5
Okay, seriously. This is out of hand. Take ALL of this fighting off the board. Call each other up or visit each other and TALK IT OUT. I seriously don't want people insulting other members of the board and getting a flame war started.
Now, Luckyangel, as for your parents splitting up, I have to choose whether to live with my Dad or with my Mom at her parent's house. I know how it feels and if you'd like me to talk to you personally, feel free to shoot me a PM :-)
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Post by Sailor Seiza on Jun 30, 2008 16:27:52 GMT -5
Fallen-Angel, I'm so sorry to hear that! If it were me, I would choose who I feel secure with, who I have a bond with, and who I feel will protect me best. I hope you choose who you think is right . I'm sorry if I'm not help. Something like this has never happened to me, or to anyone I know, so I don't have allot of experience. But I hope everything is ok, and I hope you choose who you think is best. Best wishes.
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Post by fallen-angel on Jul 1, 2008 2:22:44 GMT -5
thanks everyone but whats the point of argueing when i want help you are just bullies and have nothing better to do
sorry for spelling
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Post by Ian on Jul 1, 2008 3:05:35 GMT -5
Woah, what did we do? Everyone was really supportive of you, how are we "bullies and have nothing better to do"
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Post by fallen-angel on Jul 1, 2008 7:13:07 GMT -5
no i ment the people who were argueing with me not you, but i am realy not discussing the fight no more.
btw if mods like you can close it down even its mostly about my parents
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Post by icryinmysleep on Jul 1, 2008 7:25:22 GMT -5
i am not bully u i am just goin along with them i think it is unfair i am sorry fallen angel
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Post by fallen-angel on Jul 1, 2008 7:26:15 GMT -5
it ok
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Post by icryinmysleep on Jul 1, 2008 8:37:24 GMT -5
rhats ok buddy lol
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Post by Mistress Vampire on Jul 1, 2008 19:54:14 GMT -5
You guys who are arguing, I would suggest talking it out. I'm sure everyone had reasons for what they did or said, they just weren't thinking straight. Forgive them for that, Trust me, I've had fights with my friends, because i said something when I wasn't thinking straight.
We really don't want any part in this fight, like Ellethwen said, But I hope that you get it all worked out.
About your parents, I think you should choose the person your most secure with. If you have fights with your mom allot, choose your dad, or vise versa.
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