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Post by Rissachu on Apr 9, 2008 14:44:06 GMT -5
I know this board is mostly teenagers, but I was wondering if there was anyone here who could help me. I am 21, and my fiance and I have discussed the possibility of adoption if it should ever be found out that for whatever reason we can't have our own children. I want to be a mother, I've wanted to be one since I was little... so it just makes sense to me to adopt if I can't have my own.
However, I was wanting to adopt a child from an Asian country.. You know how people adopt from Korea, China, Vietnam, etc. I'd want to help those kids out. I've heard somewhere that Japan doesn't have an adoption agency. Can anyone help me out with some information on this because I can't find any.
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Post by BTTF Rini on Apr 10, 2008 1:57:08 GMT -5
I can't help you with any info, but I can sat this.
There isn't any problems with adoption. You should make sure you and your fiance shold consider weither or not you can afford to raise a child. If you aren't financally ready, then hold off on it for a bit, till you can for sure afford it.
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Post by AmyAnn on Apr 10, 2008 7:57:24 GMT -5
I would say the same as BTTF. Make sure you're prepared money wise. The worst thing is to adopt a child and start having money problems. Man, do I sound grouchy or what >< sorry
I doubt I could help. Besides, if my mom was typing into the search engine and the term "Adoption" popped up, she'd be worried that her 15year old daughter is looking this kind of thing up. I'll try soon, though
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Post by Amy-Chan on Apr 10, 2008 13:51:56 GMT -5
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Post by Michele on Apr 12, 2008 13:41:00 GMT -5
As BTTF and Amy said, before starting effectively to think about adoptions, you have to be sure that you can effort the rising of a child. It will take money and time. rising a child is an unique and wonderful experience, but you have to make sure you're ready for this.
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Post by Ian on Apr 12, 2008 15:33:26 GMT -5
Keep in mind, adoption is expensive, when my mom had me and my brother she decied it would be better to adopot a girl so we would have a sister than to give us another brother. But it was really expensive ( around the same as our house) so she just took her chances.
for anyone wondering, she had another boy.
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Post by SerenaTsukino on Apr 12, 2008 19:00:28 GMT -5
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